Everyone has a secret they would like to keep from their partners from time to time. It’s not like they deliberately want to hide something to hurt the other person, it’s just some innate fears of opening up completely to your partner, just so you don’t get judged. The other day I met this woman and we were having a similar discussion and she told me she has ‘secret sexy behaviours’ she doesn’t like to display in front of her boyfriend. It seriously sounded like a line from Sex And The City but I knew what she was trying to say and I absolutely get that.
But more often than not, men are curious as always and they would always like to know what she keeps from them and never reveals. It’s just to ease their burden to constantly try and understand and read women. So, I made it a little simpler.
Women Confessions about the one thing they have never confessed to their partner and this is what they had to say.
I am As Shallow As They Come
“My boyfriend doesn’t know this but I am as shallow as they come. I have dumped guys in the past because of bad grammar, oily hair, bad skin or terrible breath. I am not kidding. No, I do look at their personality too but come on, you have to live with that face forever. Of course my boyfriend doesn’t know this about me and thank god he’s perfect, as of now” – Meera, 28
It’s Okay To Fake It
“Come on, like you don’t know women fake orgasms? And it’s absolutely okay to do so as well. It gives my man the power that he’s pleased me in some way and he’s super nice to me doing things for me all week long. So, I think it’s absolutely worth faking. Don’t get me wrong, he does give me real orgasms too at times but there are times when a girl has just gotta fake it“!- Tanya, 30
Sometimes I Chat With Other Boys
I Am A Closeted Shopaholic
I Fantasise About Having Sex With More Than 2 Men
“I fantasise about having sex with more than two men but I can’t tell my boyfriend that, he wouldn’t take it well I think. I also fantasise about orgies and gangbangs but it’s too much information to give out“! – Kanish (name changed), 33
I Smoke Pot
I’ve Had Sex With Other Women
“My boyfriend doesn’t know this but I have had flings with other women and quite enjoyed it. I know my boyfriend will be thrilled about the idea and would want us to experiment with another woman but I am afraid he’ll keep asking me for that. So it’s best he doesn’t know“. – Deepti, 27
I Masturbate A Lot
“Me and my guy live together and anytime he’s not around I masturbate because I love it.” – Tarika ( Name changed), 30
I Don’t Like His Mother
“I really don’t like his mother. She’s intrusive, possessive and I think she’s obsessed with him. I just can’t get myself to say this to him“. – Mallika, 29
I Check His Phone
“I check his phone all the time and I have mastered the art of doing so, without him finding out! There’s a thrill attached to it and I don’t have a reason to really do it because he’s honest but I still can’t help myself“! – Divya, 26